Port of San Francisco |
First
off I would like to give a shout out to my home town, Montgomery Alabama, I
wasn’t born there but I was raised in the south and I feel we should never
forget where we came from, having said that, I feel it’s getting real hard to
connect with a place I used to know, maybe it’s because I’m so far away, but to
tell you the truth it’s hard for me to connect with my old self, the person who
I knew I knew I was, the person I used
to be.
I can’t remember a time, while in Alabama, that I said “Boy
do I love this place”. Besides having love for and having spirit for my high
school and side of town I was from (Lee High School!!! EastsidE!!!!) I didn’t
have much spirit or much love for Alabama.* I had a lot of love for the South
but after living in some of the very best cities in 4 southern states I
realized I didn’t like the South very much as I thought. I was ready to get out
of the South and start a new life or just start my life in general
I’m an artist, I need an artist friendly city to live in. a
city that wants to live it’s culture and breathe it’s residences. I came to
California to live my life. I had no idea what was here I just was sick of my
life in the Heart of Dixie and my life beneath the Mason Dixon line wasn’t
getting any better. The spiral down was something to watch. I decided to change
it. Freeing myself of my fears and all the things holding me back, which was
myself. I had a habit of running to my comfort zone instead of trying to climb
over walls and figure out ways around the bull shit that are the opportunities
in the South. That comfort zone consists of hatred, jealousy, anger, suspicion,
family, Alabama, negative criticism, insecurities, and self-doubt. Any time it
would get hot in the kitchen I would run back to my comfort zone that I tried
so hard to maintain.
My friend praying on the Bay |
During
this experience I’m learning a lot about myself and the world. I’m seeing that
someone like me, with a head on his shoulders, has a responsibility to discover
a better or a new way of living. We as a people should figure out where we are
going wrong and fix it. Just like you as a human being work on yourself to
become a better person, we should all work on creating a better environment and
world for all of us. No matter the race, nationality or sex. We all want and
search for the same things, we should just learn how to embrace each other and
find what it is we’re seeking together. Two heads are better than one right? There
is a world outside of the color of your skin and every day I live it. I love
it. My perception of this world is exactly how my world is and so is yours. I stopped
focusing on things that used to bother me and drive me nuts. Now it’s hard to
even see those things exist. Not to say that my life is perfect and I shouldn’t
work on myself. It’s not perfect and every day I continue to work on myself, my
life, and the world around me. We can all act blind and try to ignore what is
going on but don’t you want to make your life better and get into a position
where you can possibly make someone else life better as well? It doesn’t take
much to spread a little love every day, most people like smiles, Me on the
other hand, I LOVE SMILES!!! Won’t be many time you see me without one on my
face. The next time you are all flustered and upset about anything, take a
minute to breathe and put a smile on your face and I promise you won’t be upset
anymore, and if you are you will feel really silly with a bad attitude and a
smile on your face.
I truly enjoy my life in California. Every day I do exactly
what I want to do. Which is mostly exploring the city. One day my friend and I
found a cave, it was pretty cool. I’ll make this statement today but don’t quote
me on it; San Francisco is my home, I think it will be for the rest of my life.
Now saying that I haven’t finished traveling yet nor have I lived in all the
places I want to live in. I think my next destination will be Rome. Why Rome? Well
I don’t know I just do what I feel. Will I live in Rome or just visit? Who knows?
I have whole continents to explore and experience. I’m finding out what freedom
really is and how much I used to limit myself and my experiences by making
definite statement about things. That goes for everything in my life not just
the things I think suck, even things I really enjoy.
My favorite time of the day in one of my secret spot |
*I have a lot of love for southern FOOTBALL though
#TeamWAREAGLE #TeamSEC