Never Made Love

Once upon a time I was walking home listening to my ipod, probably bopping to my “COOL OUT-ter space vibe” playlist which consist of artist like India Irie, Jill Scott, Mos Def, Common, Outkast, Kanye,  The Roots, de la soul, and a few others. I don’t remember what song was playing but whatever it was it made me think of all the people I’ve slept with. The quote was “I’ve never made love” and I know what you’re thinking, “That’s that song Bad by Wale and Terria Thomas”, this is true, they do say that in that song but this wasn’t the song I was listening to.  However it did make me think of that song and how all of a sudden people went from getting good dick on the regular to never have been made love. The whole concept is laughable to me because I never believe someone who talks a lot when they are trying to defend how much they love their life. Happily (I use that word loosely) married women are saying they never made love… Awkward  much? Much. So it got those wheels in my head turning and thinking about all the people I’ve had sex with and quickly my head broke down the concept of making love verses just having sex. I guess if I could dumb it down (and I did for this thought) I’d say that making love is having sex with someone you love. In my life I’ve been in love twice that I know for sure of. I’ve had sex with more than two people so I know I’ve had sex without being in love before. so the question is have I ever made love? I thought getting to this point it might be easy, but the two people I was in love with were not the people I had sex with… oops. Which got me thinking “damn I’ve never had sex with someone I was in love with… hmmm…” I kind of shocked myself as I went through my head of names and sexual encounters. It hasn’t been that many so it wasn’t as hard as some of the rest of you. I don’t judge so continue on with your count. By average standards I guess you can say I’m a prude. I’m not knocking down as many as the rest of you. I take pride in having a low number, I like to think I have value and everyone knows rarity makes the price go up. So I’m not out there “banging sluts” and “taking hoes down through there” as some of my brothers would phrase it. I’d like to think I was rather selective and one day when I do meet my wife I can truly give her the gift of me pleasuring her until the stars and moon fall from the sky, cause I can do stuff like that, not to brag or nothing but I’m certified. Okay let me stop.  This was actually on my mind for a couple of days so I decided to write about it. Maybe you got something from it, I personally think it’s kind of sad that I’ve never made love but I sure know how to… okay I’m done for real this time.